Choices

Why does it matter so much to me what choices other people make? Their choices, their life.

One person in particular has made me wonder. He chose to have an affair while married. His wife chose to not trust him and that pretty much killed their marriage (yet I fully blame him for the infidelity to begin with). He chose to move out. He chose to file for a divorce. He lost his job which caused more drama. He moved 3 hours away. The judge ordered them to spend their children's college money on their second mortgage and lawyer fees. WTH?

Now he has sold his only transportation to get out from under car payments. Now he is pretty much "borrowing" a vehicle from a friend...and she will never get a dime for it or see any gratitude. He's a louse!

Ok. vent over. Next post will be full of joy!